A narcissist does not emotionally trust themselves to take on responsibilities in a relationship. The third level of Maslow’s hierarchy is love and belonging – friendships, family of their own, intimacy, connection. You can only move up the I hate people love camping shirt but I will buy this shirt and I will love this hierarchy if the lower levels are satisfied. A narcissist cannot fully go to this third level of development and maturity because they are essentially trapped in a void on the second level, desperately seeking emotional safety. So, the narcissist has to have supply to support their needs. They do not believe that are loveable. No one can be trusted – it’s not safe!
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They attract and draw supply in because we believe they are as they appear. It’s only after we have love-bombed and enmeshed into each other’s lives that the I hate people love camping shirt but I will buy this shirt and I will love this truth starts to appear. We see ‘behind the mask’ with the deceptions and the inconsistent behaviors. It’s predictable. They expect deep down that everyone abandons them (like their parents, teachers, bosses, friends). No one is special or a real soulmate. There is no next level for a narcissist. The perceived intimacy and sex that feels so incredibly real to us is for them a temporary high. They know you are loving their looks, their sensuality, their fake personality, their charm, but you don’t see their core. No one does. It is tragic.